Then you know just how f*cked up it can feel if you’ve ever been ghosted after hooking up with someone. This happened certainly to me the very first time ( maybe not really a brag) not too way back when, and my ego had been literally shattered, particularly because I tripped over their foot and headbutted him once I went along to kiss him goodbye. RIP. Like me, you’re probably going to blame yourself and overthink about WTF could’ve happened—and that’s totally normal if you’re anything. Or perhaps you may blame the one who ghosted you if you are a player. It’s likely that it is not your fault, but FWIW, it is not necessarily because they’re a jerk either. That’s clearly a stronger possibility, but you will find a million other explanations why somebody might disappear completely once you connect using them that don’t automatically suggest they’re a terrible individual.